Tuesday, October 28, 2014

Treat Yo Self Tuesday: Just Like Animals

Maybe your week has just started, and (oh, boy) there's a lot to do.
If there's anything I've learned in life, it's that animals know how to relax and enjoy life.
So, let's take a cue from the animals. Let's take the time, and enjoy the little things a little more.
Here are a few animals that know how to do just that. Take notes, if necessary.
What are your favorite ways to relax?
What are your favorite "little things"?

Send your thoughts to:
OneToSpare@gmail.com

xxxx Alyssa Marie

Monday, October 27, 2014

Money Monday: Top 2 Habits Millennials Should Develop to Grow Wealth

Born after 1980? Welcome to the club, fellow Millennial.
While our age range seems to catch a slightly bad reputation (and gets plenty of bad nicknames),
studies about Millennials have shown us to be a very well educated (and optimistic) group.
And, with recent studies showing that 40 million consumers carry at least one open student loan,
we're also heavily burdened by student debt. Irregardless of your age group, this edition of Money Monday looks at two important things to keep in mind when your goal is growing your future wealth. 

1. Spend (and save) smart
 Think about it this way:
You go out for lunch every day with coworkers and spend $15.
Go five days a week? That's $300 in one month.
Go every month each year? That's $3,600.
If you start at age 25 and invest that $3,600 a year into an IRA (Individual Retirement Account) or a 401(k), with an average annual return of 7%, you'd have almost $1 million by your mid-60s.

While I'm not saying you should never spend money on clothes, food/entertainment, etc., the key here is to be smart about it. Beyond the widely heard mantra "live within your means," one of the biggest things to keep in mind is your financial goals. If your major goal is to grow your wealth, it would be wise to evaluate/reevaluate where you are spending your money now. Sure, use a budget…but be realistic. Break everything down, and decide (honestly) what extras you can/cannot live without. Including the extras in your lifestyle isn't a huge deal…but you should be including them in your budget. You don't need to beat yourself up too much over going a little over your extra allocated budget but, if you do, be sure to examine why (and balance it with your next month's budget).
If you went over by buying lunch/food a few extra times, because you were in a hurry or had "nothing"at home, try planning and preparing your meals in advance.
Also, don't be embarrassed to use coupons. Even if it doesn't seem like you're saving much each time, those times add up easily. Look at it as getting free money from a store. (Who doesn't like free money?)

2. Care for your credit
According to a May 2014 study from the Consumer Federation of America, most Millennials don't fully grasp just how important (and far-reaching) credit is to their entire financial life. Only 18% understand the types of businesses (i.e. credit card issuers, utility companies, lenders, cell phone carriers, etc.) that affect credit, and also use credit to evaluate you as a potential customer.
According to a study from Experian (a nationwide credit bureau), many Millennials have poor credit because they don't pay their bills on time. If you're frequently late in paying your bills, realize that your payment history is the most important part of how your credit score is calculated.You may have a great no-fee credit card with rewards, but carrying balances or making late payments could
mean high-interest rates will invalidate any benefits. If you carry a balance you could be paying a
variable interest rate as high as 19%. And if you make payments late or use too much of your credit,
you could be hit with a penalty rate which could run north of 30%!
Something else to be careful with, when it comes to your credit score, is how often it's checked. Inquiries into your credit score are classified as, either, being "hard" or "soft." Hard inquiries happen when you apply for any kind of credit (i.e. credit cards, auto loans, mortgages), and can lower your score. Soft inquiries happen when you or your employer check your credit (or even when a creditor checks your credit to send you an unsolicited offer), and they do not impact your score. Hard inquiries stay on your credit report for two years. Having a lot of hard inquiries can be very detrimental. If you're frequently expanding the amount of credit you have available, it may be viewed by potential lenders as an attempt to expand the amount of debt owed. This is seen as an increased risk that a borrower will not pay back a loan, and could make it much more difficult for you to grow future credit.

While these two factors are very important, these aren't the only things that can impact future financial success. Remember, if you have the drive to work for it, you can make anything happen.

As always, feel free to send your thoughts to:

Happy Monday!
xxxx Alyssa Marie

Sunday, October 26, 2014

OTS on Pinterest: October Inspiration

I enjoy every single season, and can't really pick just one favorite.
That being said, a time of year I really enjoy is the in-between time...
when the hot summer fades, but it's not yet a freezing winter.
Reflections on this month's board:
- I'm excited to use some of this inspiration to decorate my new apartment soon.
- I dig all of the cozy fall fashion…bring on the scarves, sweaters and boots!
- Also...bring on the coffee! And plenty of books to read!


As always, feel free to send any thoughts to:

OneToSpare@gmail.com

Hope you're all having a wonderful weekend :)
Happy Sunday!

xxxx Alyssa Marie

Saturday, October 25, 2014

Weekend Wake Up: Playlist of the Moment #12

This past week has been pretty crazy, and I'm already
on day three of being moved out of my Cincinnati apartment.
It's all snuck up on me (pretty darn quickly).
(Which makes me even more aware of how fast the week has gone by.)
The days are, almost quite literally, just blurring together.
And, suffice it to say, things haven't been very quiet in my mind.
Irregardless, here's some of the music that has been added to the rotation:

As usual, a lot of songs to choose from…some old...some new.
You may not like all of them, but maybe you'll like (at least) one.

Let me know what you think!
Is there a song/album/artist you think I should listen to?

Send your thoughts to:
OneToSpare@gmail.com

Follow me on Instagram to see how the moving process goes, during and after.

Happy Saturday!
xxxx Alyssa Marie

Thursday, October 23, 2014

Weekly Inspiration: Varying States (of Damage and Repair)

"You don't develop courage by being happy in your relationships everyday.
You develop it by surviving difficult times and challenging adversity."
Epicurus
"He sings about the pain in loving someone that hurt him in the past, and when they wanted another chance, he wants assurance from them that he won't be hurt again. He's so hurt from before that he's trying to have control on his heart this time. In the end, he realizes that love is not about control or playing safe. It's about losing control and letting all your guards down to let someone into your heart. That that's the way of truly loving a person, so we have to take that chance and truly fall all the way. This song is beautiful. Takes time to learn the lesson though."
Illustration by Ed Fairburn

“A mind that is stretched by new experiences can never go back to its old dimensions.”
―Oliver Wendell Holmes

“You are not breakable simply because you have broken; 
try to remember that you will never be any less than whole.
A broken person is still a whole person"
—Emma Bleker 


"Damaged people are dangerous. They know they can survive."
—Josephine Hart

"The world breaks everyone, and afterward, some are strong at the broken places."
Ernest Hemingway 

Is there a quote you like, or an artist you think I should check out?
Send your thoughts to:
OneToSpare@gmail.com

xxxx Alyssa Marie

Monday, October 20, 2014

Money Monday: 4 Tricks Supermarkets Use To Make You Spend More

Last week we talked about the tricks online retailers use to encourage spending.
This week, we're talking about some similar tactics used by grocery stores. 

Over the last few years, I've gotten much better at planning my grocery trips (i.e. using meal plans to create my grocery lists). There were plenty of times in the past when I would go stop at the grocery on a whim, and those were the times I would end up going slightly over budget. Though you may not have any issues with recalling your full grocery list from memory, there are several psychology tricks supermarkets enlist to trick you into spending more money than you plan.

1. Location, location, location.
This article isn't about real estate, but this phrase can also apply to the importance of product placement in the grocery store. Ever wondered why your store is constantly changing their layout? If you don't know where things are, you spend more time inside the store. The more time you spend inside the store, the more time you have to browse the shelves, and the higher the chances are you'll be tempted into making an impulse purchase. Ever wondered why there is a gap between longer aisles? Store designers want to encourage you to go down the aisles. Stores also tend to place (pricier) name-brand items at eye-level on shelves, moving the (less expensive) store brand items to lower levels. 

2. Sneaky circulars
Whether in print or online, many people rely on store ads to help plan their grocery list. The trick here? Despite being advertised, every item in the circular may not actually be on sale. Manufacturers may have paid to have their items featured, even without price reductions. Items that are sold at or below cost to tempt shoppers (a.k.a. "loss leaders") are typically featured on the front page of the store ad.
Source: Huffington Post
3. Color-coding (practically everything)
Companies use the psychology behind color-coding to influence your purchasing behavior. Our subconscious associations with colors influence how we understand prices, value and quality. Blue is often used to target budget-conscious consumers, who associate the color with trust and stability. Red creates a sense of urgency, which can trigger impulse buys. Purple is often associated with luxury or royalty, and promotes a sense of high quality.
4. Odd digit psychology, and the power of "9"
The method of not pricing items in round numbers (i.e. 69 or 99 cents) is also known as "odd pricing" (and the practice has been in use for over a century). For several years there's also been a theory that consumers pay the most attention to the first digit of a price. Basically, if an item is marked $1.99 instead of $2.00 the consumer will be more likely associate the price with $1 instead of $2.

Notice anything about the methods your local grocery store uses?
Does learning any of this change make you reevaluate your shopping habits?

Send your thoughts to:
OneToSpare@gmail.com

Happy Monday!

xxxx Alyssa Marie

Friday, October 17, 2014

TGIF: Playlist of the Moment #11

If you follow me on Instagram, you may have seen that I was in Omaha recently…
as well as my quick announcement that, very soon, I will be leaving Cincinnati to move there.

The last few weeks have been a slight mess, on various levels. Sick. Stress. General bleh.
Furniture's out this weekend. By this time next week, I'll be out of my apartment in Cincinnati.
And I'll be going to my new place in Omaha in about 3 weeks.
And, oh. My. Goodness. How the time goes.
I won't lie, I'm a little nervous. And a little scared.
And a little more anxious with each day.
But something in my gut tells me...this is it.
Yes, I'm really ready for this.

Here's a playlist of songs I've had on heavy rotation this past week.
I've made the jump to YouTube playlists, instead of just posting a few individual videos…
which means this playlist is much bigger than the ones I've posted previously.
Lots of songs I like…some old...some new.
You may not like all of them, but maybe you'll like (at least) one.

Let me know what you think!
Is there a song/album/artist you think I should listen to?

Send your thoughts to:
OneToSpare@gmail.com

Join me on this new adventure:
Follow me on Instagram to see how the moving process goes, during and after.

Happy Friday!
xxxx Alyssa Marie

Tuesday, October 14, 2014

Weekly Inspiration: Find Some!

Here are some of the things that have caught my attention lately.
Is there a piece of art, of any kind, that you think I should see?
Something you'd like me to include in a future post?
Send your thoughts and/or suggestions to:
OneToSpare@gmail.com

xxxx Alyssa Marie

"There is a crack, a crack in everything. That's how the light gets in." —Leonard Cohen
"I go through phases. Somedays I feel like the person I’m supposed to be, and then somedays, I turn into no one at all. There is both me and my silhouette. I hope that on the days you find me and all I am are darkened lines, you still are willing to be near me." —Mary Kate Teske
Artist Unknown
(I love this picture…if you know who made this, let me know so I can give them credit!)
"A long time ago, when you were a wee thing, you learned something, some way to cope, something that, if you did it, would help you survive. It wasn’t the healthiest thing, it wasn’t gonna get you free, but it was gonna keep you alive. You learned it, at five or six, and it worked, it *did* help you survive. You carried it with you all your life, used it whenever you needed it. It got you out—out of your ass-backwards town, away from an abuser, out of range of your mother’s un-love. Or whatever. It worked for you. You’re still here now partly because of this thing that you learned. The thing is, though, at some point you stopped needing it. At some point, you got far enough away, surrounded yourself with people who love you. You survived. And because you survived, you now had a shot at more than just staying alive. You had a shot now at getting free. But that thing that you learned when you were five was not then and is not now designed to help you be free. It is designed only to help you survive. And, in fact, it keeps you from being free. You need to figure out what this thing is and work your ass off to un-learn it. Because the things we learn to do to survive at all costs are not the things that will help us get FREE. Getting free is a whole different journey altogether." —Mia McKenzie
"There is nothing in a caterpillar that tells you it’s going to be a butterfly.” —R. Buckminster Fuller
Drawing by Parfenova Lisa
“I mean, we’re all trying to find out who the hell we are, aren’t we?”
Robert Ludlum

"Will I be something?
Am I something?
And the answer comes:
You already are.
You always were.
And you still have time to be."

—Anis Mojgani
Painting by Juan Esteban Rodriguez
"I am learning everyday to allow the space between where I am and where I want to be,
to inspire me and not terrify me.” ―
Tracee Ellis Ross
Artwork by Dakota Bardy
"I read once that the ancient Egyptians had fifty words for sand & the Eskimos had a hundred words for snow. I wish I had a thousand words for love, but all that comes to mind is the way you move against me while you sleep & there are no words for that."
—Brian Andreas, Story People
Artwork by Shin KwangHo

“Stars are not small or gentle.

They are writhing and dying and burning.
They are not here to be pretty.
I am trying to learn from them.”
—Caitlyn Siehl, Sky Poem 

Photo by Alison Juliah
“You meet a girl: shy, unassuming. If you tell her she’s beautiful, she’ll think you’re sweet, but she won’t believe you. She knows that beauty lies in your beholding… And sometimes that’s enough. 
But there’s a better way. You show her she is beautiful. You make mirrors of your eyes, prayers of your hands against her body. It is hard, very hard, but when she truly believes you… Suddenly the story she tells herself in her own head changes. She transforms. She isn’t seen as beautiful. She is beautiful, seen.” 
Patrick Rothfuss, The Name of The Wind

Monday, October 13, 2014

Money Monday: 5 Tricks Online Retailers Use To Make You Overspend

More and more people utilize online shopping these days to find discounts, especially this time of year.
There's a good chance, however, that (even if you're a seasoned online shopper) you may
still be spending more than you need by the time you click that "checkout" button.
Considering the retail holiday that Columbus Day (today) has become, I thought I'd share a few
tricks retailers use (so you can sidestep those hidden fees and boost your upcoming holiday budget).

1. Flash-Sale False Urgency
"Score 70% off…for 12 hours only!" "Limited time, act NOW!"
I'm willing to bet that you've seen offers like these at some point in your life, especially online. The manufactured frenzies created by websites like Groupon and LivingSocial encourage the impulse of overspending…especially on things you don't really need. According to a blog post by Norman Silber (posted earlier this year on Huffington Post), Groupon has sold over $7.25 billion dollars worth of vouchers….but the value of unused vouchers may be as high as $725 million. That's right, MILLION.
Silber also notes issues with merchant failure rates…as well as the concept that vouchers
are simply loans (from consumers to merchants) in disguise.
If you've got a few minutes, his whole post is definitely worth reading.
You can also find more statistics on Groupon's redemption rates on Quora, if you're interested.

So…how do you avoid it? Don't buy a deal unless you've reserved a time to use it!
Mark it on your calendar, or set a reminder in your phone if you need to!

There are also other sites that offer a few more options for deals, with less emphasis on an immediate need to purchase. ScoutMob offers online shopping from independent artisans but (in select cities) you can also use their mobile app to find local discounts, events, freebies at restaurants and tickets to shows.

2. Filling Up Your Cart to Meet Shipping Minimums
It can be pretty tempting to stock up on more than you need to get this extra discount. Many e-tailers offer free shipping…but typically require a minimum purchase amount (that must also be reached before any applicable taxes are considered). Though there is usually an indication of retailer policies on their main pages, but don't hesitate to read the fine print of their terms.

To get around this, visit freeshipping.org to find online retailers that offer free shipping
without any minimum purchase amounts. If the retailer offers the option, you may also be able
to pick up your order in a store near you (sometimes even on the same day).

3. The Temptation of a Discounted List Price
Seeing a majorly discounted list price can be pretty enticing…but wait before you buy!
In order to stay competitive, few online retailers actually sell products at list price (unless the price is set in stone by the manufacturer). You may think you're getting a great deal, but that 30 % off television might be 40% off elsewhere. Do a little research online to find the true value of your purchase!
Using a site like price grabber, learn what the item is selling for at other retailers.

4. Failing to Notice Delayed Shipping Dates
Never assume that the item you see will be immediately ready to ship, especially around the holidays. A lot of large sites use third-party retailers whose inventory may be limited, which could cause delays. Always double-check your shipping options, so you can get your items on time (and don't end up paying twice by having to get a replacement). On Amazon and similar sites, look for the "Sold By" icon on the product page to indicate the third-party retailer. Amazon, for example, doesn't offer its Prime free two-day option (free with yearly subscription) for all its third-party retailers' products. Check with customer service to confirm inventory, or see if another store may have the item. Some stores allow web shoppers to search inventory at local brick-and-mortar stores if items are sold out online.

5. Paying a Penalty to Make a Return
Even when e-tailers advertise free returns, there may be an additional restocking charge, which can add up to 25% of an item's cost. (This happens a lot with electronics that have been opened.) Before you make your purchase, check the return policy to find out how long you have to send it back, and if any fees apply. Zappos, for example, offers a generous window for free returns - a whole year!
If it's something you're interested in reading more about, earlier this year ComScore (digital data analytics) did a study about the demands e-tailers are now facing from consumers.

Are there any e-tailers or discount/coupon sites you frequent?
What was your best/worst experience with a retailer?

Send your thoughts to:
OneToSpare@gmail.com

Happy Monday!

xxxx Alyssa Marie

Tuesday, October 7, 2014

Treat Yo Self Tuesday: The Best Way to Treat Yourself

"Find a beautiful piece of art. If you fall in love with Van Gogh or Matisse or
John Oliver Killens, or if you fall in love with the music of Coltrane, the music of
Aretha Franklin, or the music of Chopin - find some beautiful art and admire it, and
realize that that was created by human beings just like you, no more human, no less."
— Maya Angelou
Painting by Naomi Okubo
The best way to treat yourself is to learn to love and be patient with yourself.
Remember, my dears: Rome wasn't built in a day.

What inspires you? What are you passionate about?
Send your thoughts to:
OneToSpare@gmail.com

xxxx Alyssa Marie